In honor of the royal wedding, The New York Times asked readers to share their tips for a happy marriage…and here’s what they said…

Financial strains need not leave you in a position where your family has to suffer during a divorce. Looking at the big picture and remembering that you have options are the keys to success.

When I speak with people about my passion for Collaborative Divorce and how much it benefits families who are seeking a better path forward, I am almost always asked - “oh, that’s the same as mediation, right?”  Simply put, no.  It is not the same thing.

In marriage, just as in life, there are few things more important than fiscal planning. While many people believe that prenuptial agreements aren’t necessary, careful financial planning and honest conversations will leave you and your family feeling protected and confident in the future.

Your family deserves a future filled with security and certainty.

In keeping with the basic tenets of my Collaborative Divorce Law Firm, I founded The Long Island Collaborative Divorce Professionals in order to bring together the brightest and most dedicated professionals in their industries, to help Long Island families resolve family disputes in a dignified and confidential way - without ever having to go to court.

The essence of who I am is a loyal friend, a dedicated teacher and a passionate advocate who uses my law degree to serve families in need and help them resolve family issues, outside the court system.