The 6 Nasty Financial Surprises For Divorcing Women
Adah Koivula Adah Koivula

The 6 Nasty Financial Surprises For Divorcing Women

When it comes to divorce, getting educated about the process is the most important thing that anyone can do for themselves. Not knowing what to expect can be the difference between feelings of self-determination or overwhelming feelings of dismay.

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10 Essentials of Co-Parenting After a Divorce
Adah Koivula Adah Koivula

10 Essentials of Co-Parenting After a Divorce

“Kids learn more from what a parent does rather than what is stated.” During times of crisis, like a separation or divorce, our individual feelings of despair can be overwhelming. Yet it is during these trying times that it is imperative to put the needs of our children first. Children are not equipped to handle the stresses that adult situations place on them so parents should strive to demonstrate that they can set their own feelings aside and do what is best for their children. Co-parent in a respectful and loving way and your kids will remember.

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Unexpected Restrictions You Might Face While Getting Divorced
Adah Koivula Adah Koivula

Unexpected Restrictions You Might Face While Getting Divorced

Armed with the facts, we can face just about anything. Yet, when most people enter the divorce arena they have no idea what to expect; emotionally, financially, legally.  And they certainly don’t fully appreciate the restrictions that can be placed on them, merely due to filing an action for divorce in the courthouse.

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10 Unconventional Pieces Of Marriage Advice From Divorce Lawyers
Adah Koivula Adah Koivula

10 Unconventional Pieces Of Marriage Advice From Divorce Lawyers

As an attorney it is my job to advocate for my clients throughout the divorce process, once they have affirmatively chosen to move in that direction. But I also believe strongly in encouraging people to foster a supportive and caring relationship with their spouse before coming to see a divorce attorney.

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Money Matters:  How Much Will It Cost To Get Divorced?
Adah Koivula Adah Koivula

Money Matters: How Much Will It Cost To Get Divorced?

“How much will it cost me to get divorced?” The question that family law attorneys hear from clients, time and again. The emotional stresses that come with separation, divorce, custody, etc., leave individuals feeling confused, uncertain and vulnerable. Add to this, the financial strain and it all seems overwhelming.

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When Living Your Truth Can Mean Losing Your Children
Adah Koivula Adah Koivula

When Living Your Truth Can Mean Losing Your Children

Decisions left in the hands of the court rarely have the desired outcome that the parties intended and these decisions can be devastating for children. While there are religious customs and, sometimes, restrictions, that are expected to be observed in a devout setting, families should always remember that they have options.

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This Study Confirms How Important Forgiveness Is. Here's How To Do It.
Adah Koivula Adah Koivula

This Study Confirms How Important Forgiveness Is. Here's How To Do It.

“To err is human; to forgive is divine.” As human beings, we are all bound to make mistakes, some big and some small. These slip-ups can cause a world of hurt to our families, friends, colleagues, and to ourselves. Yet we also have the unique ability to forgive. The path to true forgiveness, especially during times of divorce, can seem like an impossibility. But with a Collaborative team to assist you and your family, “genuine (self) forgiveness, is a precursor to effective change.”

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